Thoughts on The Last song by Nicholas Sparks

WOW... I finished reading The Last Song by Nicholas Sparks.
The story is truly amazing. How a person is able to find true love, and to form a relationship with their father or mother that has a change in their life forever... I know that I have finally found true love, but I haven't been able to find a relationship like the character has found with her father after not speaking with him for about three years.
There are times that I wish I could come to terms with the things that my father has done, but when I think about it or try to understand it, it makes me angry and I can't seem to forgive him or myself because of it...I hope that time will bring some closure. I know that life at times seems cruel but I at least have found someone that I can share my life with and know regardless of what tomorrow brings, we will face the unknown together.

Does Love have just one meaning?

I have come to realize in the past year that love has more than just one meaning.... I don't mean the love that you have for family or friends... I mean the love that keeps you up all night. The thing that is constantly in your mind weather you know it or not. The love that has you go to any length and do anything just to see that person happy. I have come to realize too, that love like this is rare... what i mean is that regardless the situation, you would love that person without wanting anything in return (no strings attach)... I believe that loving someone in this manner,you make sacrifices for the other persons happiness. I have found this... it amazes me that I just realized how much it means to me that I have that. That I am able to give back with no questions in my heart if what I'm doing is the right thing... I am just very sure of my future and I hope that you whoever you are, have found a love in your life that doesn't make you second guess your feelings. And if you haven't I hope that you do find it and when you do remember to cherish every moment for you never know what the future holds for you....

Love At First Sight

I have just finished reading the first part in Dear John by Nicholas Sparks.
It amazes me the way that John and Savannah fell in love. This reminds me of how I fell in love with my boyfriend, just keep in mind that he is not in the army.
People say that love at first sight is only for dreamers, but I believe that "The One" is out there. The other half that the universe has chosen just for... the missing piece that fits perfectly in the puzzle.
I believe I have found him and he makes me the happiest woman in the world. Not just the way he looks at me, but without me saying anything he knows what I'm feeling and just knows how to make me feel better. I won't lie and say that our relationship is perfect, because it's not.
We have gone through many things and somehow in the end found a way to hold on to the love we have...We disagree in things, we are very opinionated, but we find ways to accept that and still love each other. We have been together 3 years and 6 months comes Feb 17, but I love him the same way now, like I did the first time I laid my eyes on him. He has a way of making me feel safe and secure, he makes me smile with the smallest of things he does. I have learn to appreciate the person that he is and learned to fall completely in love with every single day. I know a lot of people think its bogus and that I need to grow up, but there is one thing that I can truly say about my life is that I wouldn't change a single thing that we have done or gone through. He has made me the happiest woman, and if I were asked if I had a chance to change anything, I would gladly say that my life is perfect with him and there is nothing that will ever make me want to change that.... I guess what I'm trying to say is to never give up, don't ever settle for something when you truly know inside that you can find someone or something that will truly bring you happiness.